問:
I used to be very confident in myself.

You're still confident. It's just that you're now confident about your lack of confidence.你仍然很自信。只是,你現在自信地認為「你缺乏自信」罷了You cannot be not confident.That's not possible.You're always confident about something.It's just that now your belief systems are revealing themselves to show you that one of the things you are most confident about is that you lack confidence. But you're confident about that.只是,現在你的信念系統,向你展露出,其中一個你最自信的地方,就是你「缺乏自信」。這一點,你非常有自信!So you don't lack confidence.There's the paradox for you to play with.It's about learning to be confident in what you prefer. You don't have to learn to be confident.你需要學習「如何在你喜好的方面」充滿自信,而不需要學習「如何更自信」You're already confident.Just be confident in what you prefer to be confident about, instead of what you don't prefer to be confident about.你只需要「在你喜好的方面」充滿自信,而不是在「你不喜好的方面」充滿自信Such as lacking confidence, which is not possible.There's no such thing as a lack of confidence.There's no such thing as a lack of trust.There's no such thing as a lack of control.Because when you experience being out of control, you're controlling that.When you feel like you don't trust, you trust that to be true.當你感覺「你不相信」時,你其實相信「你所相信的是真實的」Can we trust that every moment is perfect? It's just a matter of what you put your trust in in that perfect moment. There is no such thing as a lack of trust. There is no such thing as a lack of confidence. There is no such thing as a lack of abundance.沒有「信任缺失」這回事;沒有「信心不足」這回事; 沒有「在富足方面有匱乏」這回事But there is trust in lack. There is confidence in lack. There is an abundance of lack. 但是,卻存在相信自己「信任缺失」;存在 相信自己「信心不足」;存在 相信自己「在富足方面有匱乏」But you're always trusting something to be true. You're always confident that something is a real. You are always abundant in something So it's not about having to learn to trust. It's not about having to learn to be confident. It's not about having to learn to be abundant. 所以,你要做的,並不是學習如何「信任」,並不是要學習如何「自信」,並不是要學習如何「富足」You are already all those things. It's about where you put your trust, what you are confident in, and what you choose to be abundant in 你要做的是:選擇你信任什麼,選擇你在哪方面「自信」,選擇你在哪方面「富足」And when you allow yourself to know that every moment is perfect, then you are defining every situation from a positive point of view 當你允許自己知道「每一刻都是完美的」,那麼,你就是從積極正面的角度定義每一種境遇。And when you define every circumstance with a positive definition, the only affect can have in your life is a positive one 而當你對每種境遇都予以積極正面的定義,那麼,你就只能從生命中收穫的積極正面的結果What you put out is what you get back. Because there is nothing in life that has built-in meaning. The meaning you give it determines the effect it has in your life Yes. The perfect answer, thank you! Thank you for the perfect question Hello, Bashar! I'm really excited to be here! Oh, we are really excited you are there! I do psychic reading on the phone, All right. You tell the phone its fortune? Sometime I'm on facebook, or doing others, and the calls just come, sometime it's hard for me to tap into that channeling state 有時候我在刷臉書,或做其他事,電話就來了,(類似這樣的時候)我就很難進入通靈狀態Sometimes you are in alignment with it. And sometimes you are not. And that's okay So, I'm wondering how can I go there right away? You can go there right away, by sometimes being okay with being in alignment with it, and sometimes being okay that you're not 如果你接受自己有時候能同頻,有時候不能同頻,那你就能學會,瞬間進入狀態Let it come as it needs to come, let it unfold as it needs to unfold. And learn from whatever is happening in the way that it happening 讓它想怎麼來,就怎麼來,允許事件怎麼發展,就怎麼發展,並且從發生了的事件中,學習經驗教訓Instead of assuming something is going wrong. There is something there for you to learn. Therefore, something is going right If you give it that's spin, you will experience it that way And you will understand that everything then is working perfectly even when it seems not to be, Because you know how to use it in a way that allows it to have a beneficial effect in your life, 因為你知道如何利用它,讓它在你的生活中,產生一個有助益的影響Even though it may empirically not be something you prefer, You know how to use what you don't prefer in a way that you do prefer 因為你知道如何把你不喜歡的,轉化你所喜歡的,轉化成對你有益的I'm going to digest that. Would you like a mint? --- oh,YES! I get myself conscious, because clients are paying by the minutes. They are paying by the minute. Yes!They pay a dolloar a minuteI want to give the highest quality to them, If it is your intention to always be of the highest quality, then start to relax into the understanding that you are,如果你的目標是,致力於提供最高質量的服務,那麼,你只需要放輕鬆,明白你就在提供最高質量的服務。It's just that you won't necessarily deliver what people expect And sometimes remember just like healers People may come to you with the idea that they can not receive that kind of information可能有些找你的人,認為自己不可能接收到這樣的信息(不相信)And therefore, in a sense, if you're not getting anything to give them, you've actually given them what they actually asked for: the inability to receive that information, 而你也沒給他們什麼信息,那麼,某種程度上說,你其實已經給他們真正所求,就是:自己無法接收到這樣的信息So you've actually still given them what they asked for. And then if they ask for their money back, you can always give it to them, if they're not happy, So you need to relax a little bit more, into the understanding that everything is working perfectly in perfect timing 所以你要放輕鬆,明白:一切都是完美時刻,一切都在完美運作Whatever comes through is what needs to come through. And when you relax into the understanding that it won't always be what you think, it'll start being more often what it needs to be 當你心態平和,能夠明白「事情的發生,未必都如你所願」,那麼(你會看見)事情的發生,會越來越多地以它需要的方式,發生著!受益匪淺!
Sometimes like the most random things coming to my head,
有時候,我腦袋會突然冒出個念頭
巴夏:
I know, that's crazy!
我知道,這很瘋狂!
問:
And I say it, like your cat has something to say to you.
我跟客戶說:你的貓,有話對你說
And oh my god, my cat! Moving my cat is been mean to me?
「哦,我的天,我的貓!給貓搬家,不吉利嗎?」
巴夏:
Well, it's an issue of allowing yourself to trust yourself more
很好!發生這樣的事,就是在提醒你:你要更加相信自己
And like anything, the more you practice the better, you will get
就像學習任何技能一樣,熟能生巧
But again, there will always be those moments when it may not go the way you expect, and those moments are to be treasured
當然,總有些時候,事與願違,但這樣的經歷,也值得你去珍惜。
Yes?
明白嗎?
Congratulations for having things crop up in your life that you don't expect
如果半路里殺出了個「程咬金」,你要祝賀自己
Because certainly you don't want your life to become redundant
畢竟你也不希望,自己的生活日復一日、毫無新意(冗余)
It's always adventure, it's always something new, Tthere's always something new learn
生活總是有冒險,總是會出現新生事物,總是有新的東西要學
There is always something unexpected around the next corner
在下一個拐角處,總是會出現些意想不到的事物
That's the life you want to live
這才是你要的生活
Not, oh, well again. Let's see ...
而不是:媽蛋,又這樣子!該咋辦...
問:
YES!Thank you. I really trust that, trust myself.
對!謝謝!這話我信,也相信我自己!
巴夏:
You are worth trusting,
你值得信賴
All of you are, you are worth trusting.
你們所有人,都值得信賴
Yes, sometimes we understand you may be a little bit out of alignment, a little bit off the mark.
當然,我們知道,你們有時候會低落、會不在狀態,
But you can still trust that as part of your process to learn something from
但你仍然可以相信,這是過程的完美,其中有值得你學習的東西
So in that sense, in the overall sense, you're all worth trusting
所以,總的來說,你們值得信賴!
If you're willing to always investigate yourself in the most honest way you can, always willing with the intention to know whether you are or are not in alignment with who you prefer to be.
如果你能事事反諸己身,誠實地面對自己,省悟自己,時時都能覺察自己,是否與「理想中的自己」同頻
And if you always have that intention, then you will always have the course correcting, self aligning mechanism to bring you back into center, to bring it back into balance
如果你時刻都有這樣的願心,那你將啓動內在「自動巡航控制系統」,把你引導回你自己的中心,引導到平衡的狀態!
Because you're willing to.
因為你們願意如此!
That's that your intention,yes?
因為這是你們的心願,不是嗎?
問:
Yes, thank you!
是的,謝謝!